neonlimited
Don Juan
okay heres the situation... met a rreally hot girl in the bowling alley tonight, got her number!! and i really wanna hook up with this girl!! but im no DJ lol, can someone help me out??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
need some help here!! pls read!
- Thread starter neonlimited
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I thought I would never have to say this, but....
Read the Bible!
Your answers are there, plus a lot of other hidden gold
Read the Bible!
Your answers are there, plus a lot of other hidden gold
Most logical thing for you right now would be to pick up yer phone and call her. You might want to consider waiting for a few days (two is enough, not three as some may say) and go along the lines of "we had fun at the alley, and today I was reading this movie review(or whatever kind of fun thing to do you came up with), so I figured you might want to tag along". Pick a thing to do and stick to it! Have a plan, a course of events etc.
You can probably manage things from there on. And yes, do read the DJBible.
Cheers.
You can probably manage things from there on. And yes, do read the DJBible.
Cheers.
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Senior Don Juan
You're not a DJ? Dude, you got her phonenumber... that alone makes you better than a lot of the guys on here... you may be more DJ than you think!
Nevertheless, read the bible
Nevertheless, read the bible
well you could do what the guys above said and read the bible. or you could just call her up, set a date, go on the date, do whatever, and continue on with what you want. when you do screw up or something, you can read the bible and then repeat the process. whichever works
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.