neonlimited
Don Juan
okay heres the situation... met a rreally hot girl in the bowling alley tonight, got her number!! and i really wanna hook up with this girl!! but im no DJ lol, can someone help me out??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
need some help here!! pls read!
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I thought I would never have to say this, but....
Read the Bible!
Your answers are there, plus a lot of other hidden gold
Read the Bible!
Your answers are there, plus a lot of other hidden gold
Most logical thing for you right now would be to pick up yer phone and call her. You might want to consider waiting for a few days (two is enough, not three as some may say) and go along the lines of "we had fun at the alley, and today I was reading this movie review(or whatever kind of fun thing to do you came up with), so I figured you might want to tag along". Pick a thing to do and stick to it! Have a plan, a course of events etc.
You can probably manage things from there on. And yes, do read the DJBible.
Cheers.
You can probably manage things from there on. And yes, do read the DJBible.
Cheers.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
You're not a DJ? Dude, you got her phonenumber... that alone makes you better than a lot of the guys on here... you may be more DJ than you think!
Nevertheless, read the bible
Nevertheless, read the bible
well you could do what the guys above said and read the bible. or you could just call her up, set a date, go on the date, do whatever, and continue on with what you want. when you do screw up or something, you can read the bible and then repeat the process. whichever works
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.