Need some help here fellas.

[Some Call Me Tim]

I did something dumb. I've been on the website and reading the forum for a while now. I've been trying to get back in with my ex. So far it's been going pretty well, been teasing and trying out some kino with her. All responses have been positive so far.

Then, disaster struck. I made a bad joke about somebody who recently passed away. I thought I was being funny, but I've deeply offended her. I tried to play it off by texting her a nonchalant apology, but that didn't cut it.

Basically she's still furious. I need some advice from a successful DJ. Is this pursuit futile now? Can I fix this?

Appreciate the help in advance guys!

Tim

 

[sinnerman]

i think you should sincerely apologize and admit that it was in a bad taste and let some time pass...and in person or on phone not by text.
being ****y and funny is great but sometimes it has to be dialed down.

 

[Falcon25]

It's okay to apologize, but then back off, leave her alone. Go into silent mode. Do not profusely apologize over and over again. You made a mistake, you apologize, you move on.

PS.

Try to move on with your life, instead of going backwards with an ex. I would never go back, only forward.

 

[Some Call Me Tim]

I placed the call, and she didn't answer. My guess is that she's ignoring me, as she always has her phone with her.

Assuming she doesn't want to be contacted, how do I make this right?

 

[trrush]

right for you? the right thing for you is to leave her alone and go find somebody else; if your ex comes back and chases you, you make her work for your attention.
but i have a gut feeling you won't listen, she'll say one thing and you'll run back to her, whipped and smiling.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You want to get back with your ex. That's words I should never hear under any circumstances.