Need Some Guidance

[DA KID]

Need Some Help really confused

Alright I'm black. I'm starting to rid myself of my AFC. I'm starting to hangout with more people especially white people they really like me cause I always make sure everyone having a good time but I think if I spendd to much time with one group like white people might see me as a sell out I don't know what to do. Should I stop hanging out with the white people or should I just try to hang out with everyone more

 

[CoRVeTTe6699]

be friends with everyone

 

[DA KID]

Yea. I think that's what I'm going to do. But do you think it's okay to act different around diff groups a people cause I relized I act one way with certain groups of people. Like I can DJ all the white girls Iwant but I become a real AFC around Black chicks

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by DA KID
Yea. I think that's what I'm going to do. But do you think it's okay to act different around diff groups a people cause I relized I act one way with certain groups of people. Like I can DJ all the white girls Iwant but I become a real AFC around Black chicks

Haha wtf? Are you black or what?

If you are, it just means you feel unconfident around your own race because you feel they are higher, more superior then you are. It's simply genetics, but you can get over that. Practice makes perfect

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Haha wtf? Are you black or what?

If you are, it just means you feel unconfident around your own race because you feel they are higher, more superior then you are. It's simply genetics, but you can get over that. Practice makes perfect

Or its cause theyre loud and aggessive.

 

[DA KID]

It's not that I'm afraid of my race well kind of it's just the way they put me down cause of my childhood was a complete afc lil ***** and had no gfs or hooked up with anyone during middle school now they usually make fun of me a little bit. but it really cause I still act like a punk and afc that's why this summer I'm dedicating myself for a change. I don't think it's a problem with races maybe my confidence

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by DA KID
I don't think it's a problem with races maybe my confidence

Your confidence around races...


Think about that one

 

[DA KID]

I don't get it lol

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Concentrate on becoming a strong minded young man who strives for success and approach others as human beings and not a color. you do have different attitudes amongst the races so you'll have to adapt as you see fit - just don't be a chump and act effeminate around women - assert your young manhood - all races respect this!

Treat everone with the respect that they deserve!

 

[Jerky Boi]

Maybe it is because they're loud and aggressive.. Haha. You have to put everything else aside and use the same skills you use to get white girls to get black girls. We're all people. Dig up that confidence and USE it. You can only learn so much by reading; You have to go up and experience to really learn anything.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Perhaps you should be yourself, instead of black or white.

Oh, I'm insane, I know.

 

[DA KID]

Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Perhaps you should be yourself, instead of black or white.

Oh, I'm insane, I know.

I think that's crazy enough to work thx for all the help guys

 

[Ebach]

Black girls are crazier than white girls (most of the time in a good way ;-)

I knew a black guy who would DJ all the white girls but grow a ***** when he was around black girls. What I truly thought of that guy by seeing him in action everyday? He was a *****. He was all words and no action. That's what white women like -- all the words and false dreams described to them. Black women want to see some action. I definitely like their style!

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by Ebach
Black girls are crazier than white girls (most of the time in a good way ;-)

I knew a black guy who would DJ all the white girls but grow a ***** when he was around black girls. What I truly thought of that guy by seeing him in action everyday? He was a *****. He was all words and no action. That's what white women like -- all the words and false dreams described to them. Black women want to see some action. I definitely like their style!

Okay, lets stop from making outlandish generalizations....

If you make sure everyone's having a good time, EVERYONE will like you not just one race. If you want an example of everyone liking someone for what they bring, not their race, look at people like Pharrell. he's done songs for the gulliest, tighetest rappers, to the gayest weirdest boybands. And he is respected by everyone. He makes rap songs and groups and the goes and sings alto or in some high pitched girly voice dressed like some careless skateboarding rocker. he just doesn't care, perhaps that's what makes him so appealing?