"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need some encouragement.

Takaloo

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OK, a while back when I was just starting out I made a pretty bad effort at sarging a female. My first sarge. Basically It went like this

Me: hey, you got change of this...
her yeah wait a sec...
me... "Don't I know you from somewhere"....
her "no... why would you?"...
me... "well where are you from"....
her"xxx",
me: "oh, it must be someone else then...
her "ok..." me... "thanks".


Poor i know. Since then I've gotten better and am actually in an LTR but heres the problem. I see this chick from time to time in college. Well on friday we walked past each other and i looked back (to check out her ass of course) and her friend was looking at me smiling. It's clear she said something to her friend about my awful sarge. But the thing is, It wasn't really me trying to pick her up or anything. She never rejected me or anything. But shes shooting her mouth off apparently having a laugh at my expense. This is the reason why i don't do CA's on campus. I need a yes-man to make me feel better but I don't have any so I have turned to here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Luveno

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Shut up and get some balls.
 
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Originally posted by Takaloo
me... "Don't I know you from somewhere"....
her "no... why would you?"...
"Why would you?" - this WAS a rejection!!:rolleyes: If it was a girl that you regularly see (same campus) then why wouldn't she have seen you before? You should have asked her whether she went to your school and have told her that you were the "BIG man on campus"!
 

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Who cares if she mouthes off about you? Im still in HS, but a friend of mine in uni tells me that campus is totally different from hs, in that it has about 10k more people, and no matter how hard you try to be popular, you won't get known by everyone. So its not like everyone's against you now because of one chick. In fact, most people on campus prolly dont even know her. So stop busting your nuts over something that is frankly not that important!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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