"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OK, a while back when I was just starting out I made a pretty bad effort at sarging a female. My first sarge. Basically It went like this

Me: hey, you got change of this...
her yeah wait a sec...
me... "Don't I know you from somewhere"....
her "no... why would you?"...
me... "well where are you from"....
her"xxx",
me: "oh, it must be someone else then...
her "ok..." me... "thanks".


Poor i know. Since then I've gotten better and am actually in an LTR but heres the problem. I see this chick from time to time in college. Well on friday we walked past each other and i looked back (to check out her ass of course) and her friend was looking at me smiling. It's clear she said something to her friend about my awful sarge. But the thing is, It wasn't really me trying to pick her up or anything. She never rejected me or anything. But shes shooting her mouth off apparently having a laugh at my expense. This is the reason why i don't do CA's on campus. I need a yes-man to make me feel better but I don't have any so I have turned to here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Luveno

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Shut up and get some balls.
 
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Originally posted by Takaloo
me... "Don't I know you from somewhere"....
her "no... why would you?"...
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"Why would you?" - this WAS a rejection!!:rolleyes: If it was a girl that you regularly see (same campus) then why wouldn't she have seen you before? You should have asked her whether she went to your school and have told her that you were the "BIG man on campus"!
 
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Who cares if she mouthes off about you? Im still in HS, but a friend of mine in uni tells me that campus is totally different from hs, in that it has about 10k more people, and no matter how hard you try to be popular, you won't get known by everyone. So its not like everyone's against you now because of one chick. In fact, most people on campus prolly dont even know her. So stop busting your nuts over something that is frankly not that important!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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