"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some encouragement.

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OK, a while back when I was just starting out I made a pretty bad effort at sarging a female. My first sarge. Basically It went like this

Me: hey, you got change of this...
her yeah wait a sec...
me... "Don't I know you from somewhere"....
her "no... why would you?"...
me... "well where are you from"....
her"xxx",
me: "oh, it must be someone else then...
her "ok..." me... "thanks".


Poor i know. Since then I've gotten better and am actually in an LTR but heres the problem. I see this chick from time to time in college. Well on friday we walked past each other and i looked back (to check out her ass of course) and her friend was looking at me smiling. It's clear she said something to her friend about my awful sarge. But the thing is, It wasn't really me trying to pick her up or anything. She never rejected me or anything. But shes shooting her mouth off apparently having a laugh at my expense. This is the reason why i don't do CA's on campus. I need a yes-man to make me feel better but I don't have any so I have turned to here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luveno

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Shut up and get some balls.
 
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Originally posted by Takaloo
me... "Don't I know you from somewhere"....
her "no... why would you?"...
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"Why would you?" - this WAS a rejection!!:rolleyes: If it was a girl that you regularly see (same campus) then why wouldn't she have seen you before? You should have asked her whether she went to your school and have told her that you were the "BIG man on campus"!
 
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Who cares if she mouthes off about you? Im still in HS, but a friend of mine in uni tells me that campus is totally different from hs, in that it has about 10k more people, and no matter how hard you try to be popular, you won't get known by everyone. So its not like everyone's against you now because of one chick. In fact, most people on campus prolly dont even know her. So stop busting your nuts over something that is frankly not that important!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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