"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need some emergency advice : store closes in 1 hr

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Good looking babe , she operates one of those kiosk in the mall behind a counter( closes at 9 pm )

However, I don't know how to approach this .. ? I mean she's behind a counter and its hard to build rapport...


Do I just ask her for her number ? or ask her to join me for a beer after work ( she looks too tired )

Do I just go up there and start a conv. for as long as there are no customers and three minutes later just ask her for her number in three minutes time ?



Or just I go back tomorrow ( I hoping two visits more congenial to giving out the number..)
I need to know by 9 or else I am planning on hoping on catching her another day time
our first conv went bad already ..I didn't say much...except I work and I goto college..
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KnightRyder

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30 mins to close ....


now or tomorrw w/ a planned script
 

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Usually what I do, is as long as she doesnt have customers then i will go and ask about the products, and try to find an opener to steer the convo away from the product and towards her.

You take it from there, then you can either number close, or what i like to do(if she looks up to it) is to set a date to meet up later on. I usually just tell her 'you're coming to xxxxx place for a drink/whatever' , and you can do alot of C&F with that. If you've built up some nice rapport then she should agree to it. I have more success doing this than with number closing.
 

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Originally posted by KnightRyder
Good looking babe , she operates one of those kiosk in the mall behind a counter( closes at 9 pm )

However, I don't know how to approach this .. ? I mean she's behind a counter and its hard to build rapport...


Do I just ask her for her number ? or ask her to join me for a beer after work ( she looks too tired )

Do I just go up there and start a conv. for as long as there are no customers and three minutes later just ask her for her number in three minutes time ?



Or just I go back tomorrow ( I hoping two visits more congenial to giving out the number..)
I need to know by 9 or else I am planning on hoping on catching her another day time
our first conv went bad already ..I didn't say much...except I work and I goto college..
If you want to go tlak to her, the first thing you need to do is CALM DOWN!!

You're in "panic mode" now. "OMG, store closes in half an hour...gotta do it...OMG OMG"

If you approach her with that panicked mindset, she will bolt like a frikkin rabbit. Calm down, take a deep breath, and then consider what you're going to do.
 

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forget it..wtf

she lead me like all thru the conv like she was going to give me a number

when I asked for her digits,

'I have a boyfriend already .....and he might get angry"

Right then I was like,

biatch, so what ? ??? you'll have a new boyfriend ..?



thread closed.....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jake-inator

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biatch, so what ? ??? you'll have a new boyfriend ..?
:crackup: :crackup:

She was proabaly lying but still...
She just didn't want to blow you off and you call her a biatch. :crackup:

This is something right out of a Will Ferrel movie. You're my Hero!!!
 

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Man oh man. It's weird that I don't find this funny but actually extremely pitiful.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by Jake-inator
She was proabaly lying but still...
She just didn't want to blow you off and you call her a biatch. :crackup:


You're my hero!!!
first you say she was probably lying about having a boyfriend, then you say she didn't want to blow him off. Isn't a girl lying to you by saying 'i have a gf' blowing you off? if she didn't want to blow you off she would give you her digits and not lye about having a bf!

btw, calling her a biatch that was great!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea you got a point,
she didn't want to look like a bit*h... and you handed it to her. Good job. :up:
 
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