"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey,

i love a girl since long ago.. like 4 years... the first year she was in my class, but then i moved from the school, when i entered high school, to a new one and she moved to the same one. but i we have never talked to each other. she knows that i love her and i know that she loves me. just by eye contact. i want to date her... but not too fast and i dont really want it to get really serious. i want things to go slowly, because i have a better Target in mind and i dont wanna lose that Target or lose that Targets interest in me.
if i go talk to her, it will look quite weird, like we've been just looking at each other without saying any word :p so better like add her on facebook and send her an email? any suggestions on what i should right in the email?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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Wow, love is really being taken out of context over here. You guys haven't talked to each other but you know she already loves you and you already love her? Maybe "attraction" is the more suitable word, or "sprung". And you shouldn't be worried about taking it slowly because you haven't even stepped foot on anything yet. Anyways in the email you should probably just put "Hey how's it going?" Yep, just that.
 
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LOL. Sorry my friend, but you are deluded. You do not love her and she sure as hell does not love you. She probably keeps looking at you because you keep staring at her, scared that you're stalking her lol.

God, some people...
 
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CaptainJ said:
LOL. Sorry my friend, but you are deluded. You do not love her and she sure as hell does not love you. She probably keeps looking at you because you keep staring at her, scared that you're stalking her lol.

God, some people...
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Lmao! A little rough but true!
 
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your already talking about taking it slow and not getting too serious and you havent even talked to her yet?
just go talk to her. preferably in person.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hahahahahah i laughed when I read this post.

Bro, get your fvckin head straight and then come back on here.
 
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You love her but have never talked to her...

Enough said
 
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rose123 said:
we have never talked to each other. she knows that i love her and i know that she loves me. just by eye contact.
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This my friends HAS to be the quote of the day lol
 
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