"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need some advices

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hey,

i love a girl since long ago.. like 4 years... the first year she was in my class, but then i moved from the school, when i entered high school, to a new one and she moved to the same one. but i we have never talked to each other. she knows that i love her and i know that she loves me. just by eye contact. i want to date her... but not too fast and i dont really want it to get really serious. i want things to go slowly, because i have a better Target in mind and i dont wanna lose that Target or lose that Targets interest in me.
if i go talk to her, it will look quite weird, like we've been just looking at each other without saying any word :p so better like add her on facebook and send her an email? any suggestions on what i should right in the email?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow, love is really being taken out of context over here. You guys haven't talked to each other but you know she already loves you and you already love her? Maybe "attraction" is the more suitable word, or "sprung". And you shouldn't be worried about taking it slowly because you haven't even stepped foot on anything yet. Anyways in the email you should probably just put "Hey how's it going?" Yep, just that.
 
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LOL. Sorry my friend, but you are deluded. You do not love her and she sure as hell does not love you. She probably keeps looking at you because you keep staring at her, scared that you're stalking her lol.

God, some people...
 
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CaptainJ said:
LOL. Sorry my friend, but you are deluded. You do not love her and she sure as hell does not love you. She probably keeps looking at you because you keep staring at her, scared that you're stalking her lol.

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Lmao! A little rough but true!
 
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your already talking about taking it slow and not getting too serious and you havent even talked to her yet?
just go talk to her. preferably in person.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hahahahahah i laughed when I read this post.

Bro, get your fvckin head straight and then come back on here.
 
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You love her but have never talked to her...

Enough said
 
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rose123 said:
we have never talked to each other. she knows that i love her and i know that she loves me. just by eye contact.
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This my friends HAS to be the quote of the day lol
 
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