"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need some advices

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hey,

i love a girl since long ago.. like 4 years... the first year she was in my class, but then i moved from the school, when i entered high school, to a new one and she moved to the same one. but i we have never talked to each other. she knows that i love her and i know that she loves me. just by eye contact. i want to date her... but not too fast and i dont really want it to get really serious. i want things to go slowly, because i have a better Target in mind and i dont wanna lose that Target or lose that Targets interest in me.
if i go talk to her, it will look quite weird, like we've been just looking at each other without saying any word :p so better like add her on facebook and send her an email? any suggestions on what i should right in the email?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow, love is really being taken out of context over here. You guys haven't talked to each other but you know she already loves you and you already love her? Maybe "attraction" is the more suitable word, or "sprung". And you shouldn't be worried about taking it slowly because you haven't even stepped foot on anything yet. Anyways in the email you should probably just put "Hey how's it going?" Yep, just that.
 
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LOL. Sorry my friend, but you are deluded. You do not love her and she sure as hell does not love you. She probably keeps looking at you because you keep staring at her, scared that you're stalking her lol.

God, some people...
 
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CaptainJ said:
LOL. Sorry my friend, but you are deluded. You do not love her and she sure as hell does not love you. She probably keeps looking at you because you keep staring at her, scared that you're stalking her lol.

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Lmao! A little rough but true!
 
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your already talking about taking it slow and not getting too serious and you havent even talked to her yet?
just go talk to her. preferably in person.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hahahahahah i laughed when I read this post.

Bro, get your fvckin head straight and then come back on here.
 
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You love her but have never talked to her...

Enough said
 
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rose123 said:
we have never talked to each other. she knows that i love her and i know that she loves me. just by eye contact.
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This my friends HAS to be the quote of the day lol
 
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