"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WORKEROUTER

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I went out with this girl in her mid-20s for the first time, got drunk, and we ended up sleeping together.

Anyway, I can tell that she really likes me and wants to do more with me. There's only one problem...she's a smoker. She has a totally hot body and face, but the smoking thing turns me off. When I make out with her, the taste is NO GOOD.

So what should I do here? Get her as a bootycall? Or just move on?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I'm 46 and I haven't ever been able to convince myself to have sex with a woman who smoked. It's a turn off for me so I am not surprised that it's the same for you.

Be tactfull, but tell her if you want to pursue the relationship with her. She probably will not be able to drop smoking as it is highly addictive, but you will have given her an opportunity.

To be honest, I never did tell the women who smoked and who seemed interested that their smoking was the problem. That's because I didn't think that they would drop their habits.

Have a good life.
 
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Mid 20's?? Damn! You are only 18! Don't kiss her and just "hit" her from behind!!! Oh yeah, I mean 'hit" her with your penis and not your fist!!!:rolleyes: You don't want to kill the ho!!:rolleyes: What good is a dead ho to you??:rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
I went out with this girl in her mid-20s for the first time, got drunk, and we ended up sleeping together.

Anyway, I can tell that she really likes me and wants to do more with me. There's only one problem...she's a smoker. She has a totally hot body and face, but the smoking thing turns me off. When I make out with her, the taste is NO GOOD.

So what should I do here? Get her as a bootycall? Or just move on?
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Be a girl.

Say "I really enjoyed being with you... but... I don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now. But I'd still like to hang out..."

or (with only a little BS)

"I think you're great... but... smoking gives me a headache... so I don't think this will work out..."
 
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I can't do smokers, it fvcks with their body chemistry. I'll them them though, I've been surprised a couple of times when the woman actually gave up smoking. It still takes a while for their chemistry to revert back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's a personal preference.

One of the first pieces of advice my dad gave me was "don't ever kiss a smoker, it's like licking a chimney". That advice is very true for me, it's horrid.

You could request that she refrains from smoking while shes with you. Might be hard since smokers have to have one after sex.

It's up to you.
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Mid 20's?? Damn! You are only 18! Don't kiss her and just "hit" her from behind!!! Oh yeah, I mean 'hit" her with your penis and not your fist!!!:rolleyes: You don't want to kill the ho!!:rolleyes: What good is a dead ho to you??:rolleyes:
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
I agree 100%
 
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You already awnsered your own question

You said you don't like smokers, so obviously you don't want to date a smoker.

Unless you love her personality a great deal there's no point.

A booty call is the best id recommend for you and it seems you don't even enjoy them because of the taste from her smoking.

So it would seem the awnser is very simple because you awnsered it yourself, simply a bootycall. If you cannot deal with the taste next.

It's your choice and a very simple one. Why you need someone to help you with this one is beyond me. This is a matter of personal preference.
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Mid 20's?? Damn! You are only 18! Don't kiss her and just "hit" her from behind!!! Oh yeah, I mean 'hit" her with your penis and not your fist!!!:rolleyes: You don't want to kill the ho!!:rolleyes: What good is a dead ho to you??:rolleyes:
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Yeah well you know, I upped my age a couple years with her.

I don't plan on dating the girl. But like I said, she has a SMOKING body, and I really wouldn't mind keeping her around for a booty call. Plus, she is very frisky in bed.
 
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God damn ----


People need to get your priorities straight>>Easy decision


Do you like fvcking her more than you dislike kissing her and tasting the cigarret mouth?

Base your decison on this..So simple ..Another solution get a hotter girl while you keep on practicing your fvcking techniques with this one./..lol I MA SO EVIL ITS NOT FUNNYl/....loloL
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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