"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I went out with this girl in her mid-20s for the first time, got drunk, and we ended up sleeping together.

Anyway, I can tell that she really likes me and wants to do more with me. There's only one problem...she's a smoker. She has a totally hot body and face, but the smoking thing turns me off. When I make out with her, the taste is NO GOOD.

So what should I do here? Get her as a bootycall? Or just move on?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, I'm 46 and I haven't ever been able to convince myself to have sex with a woman who smoked. It's a turn off for me so I am not surprised that it's the same for you.

Be tactfull, but tell her if you want to pursue the relationship with her. She probably will not be able to drop smoking as it is highly addictive, but you will have given her an opportunity.

To be honest, I never did tell the women who smoked and who seemed interested that their smoking was the problem. That's because I didn't think that they would drop their habits.

Have a good life.
 
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Mid 20's?? Damn! You are only 18! Don't kiss her and just "hit" her from behind!!! Oh yeah, I mean 'hit" her with your penis and not your fist!!!:rolleyes: You don't want to kill the ho!!:rolleyes: What good is a dead ho to you??:rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
I went out with this girl in her mid-20s for the first time, got drunk, and we ended up sleeping together.

Anyway, I can tell that she really likes me and wants to do more with me. There's only one problem...she's a smoker. She has a totally hot body and face, but the smoking thing turns me off. When I make out with her, the taste is NO GOOD.

So what should I do here? Get her as a bootycall? Or just move on?
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Be a girl.

Say "I really enjoyed being with you... but... I don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now. But I'd still like to hang out..."

or (with only a little BS)

"I think you're great... but... smoking gives me a headache... so I don't think this will work out..."
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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I can't do smokers, it fvcks with their body chemistry. I'll them them though, I've been surprised a couple of times when the woman actually gave up smoking. It still takes a while for their chemistry to revert back.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's a personal preference.

One of the first pieces of advice my dad gave me was "don't ever kiss a smoker, it's like licking a chimney". That advice is very true for me, it's horrid.

You could request that she refrains from smoking while shes with you. Might be hard since smokers have to have one after sex.

It's up to you.
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Mid 20's?? Damn! You are only 18! Don't kiss her and just "hit" her from behind!!! Oh yeah, I mean 'hit" her with your penis and not your fist!!!:rolleyes: You don't want to kill the ho!!:rolleyes: What good is a dead ho to you??:rolleyes:
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
I agree 100%
 
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You already awnsered your own question

You said you don't like smokers, so obviously you don't want to date a smoker.

Unless you love her personality a great deal there's no point.

A booty call is the best id recommend for you and it seems you don't even enjoy them because of the taste from her smoking.

So it would seem the awnser is very simple because you awnsered it yourself, simply a bootycall. If you cannot deal with the taste next.

It's your choice and a very simple one. Why you need someone to help you with this one is beyond me. This is a matter of personal preference.
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Mid 20's?? Damn! You are only 18! Don't kiss her and just "hit" her from behind!!! Oh yeah, I mean 'hit" her with your penis and not your fist!!!:rolleyes: You don't want to kill the ho!!:rolleyes: What good is a dead ho to you??:rolleyes:
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Yeah well you know, I upped my age a couple years with her.

I don't plan on dating the girl. But like I said, she has a SMOKING body, and I really wouldn't mind keeping her around for a booty call. Plus, she is very frisky in bed.
 
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God damn ----


People need to get your priorities straight>>Easy decision


Do you like fvcking her more than you dislike kissing her and tasting the cigarret mouth?

Base your decison on this..So simple ..Another solution get a hotter girl while you keep on practicing your fvcking techniques with this one./..lol I MA SO EVIL ITS NOT FUNNYl/....loloL
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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