"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some advice to get this girl.

jcj001

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Hey! Can anybody help me out here. I'm a freshman at a university and I'm attrative to this girl I met here on campus. We been introduced once by our friends and things went pretty well. We only talked for about 5 minutes at the most only because she was busy with school work. But, I did found out that She is also a freshman, plays on the golf team, Catholic, and she is from Mexico. She's my dream girl I always wanted. Now every time we see each other going to our classes, with a smile, we'll both say "hi" and go on. I want to spend more time with her as well as getting to know her more. Does anybody have any advice to give me to reel her in. Any help would be appreciated.

Sincerely

jcj001
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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christz

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"She's my dream girl I always wanted"

is why you will fail

ditch that attitude and then i'll come back with some advice
 

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Stop her and talk to her. Ask her if she's into golf and see if she'd like to play this weekend (You know, but does she know you know? Maybe putt-putt).

I dunno, that's what I'd do. If you have lots of stuff in common ask her to get together and do one of those things. It doesnt have to be a date at first, but rather just a way of getting her number and going out with her.
 
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