"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need some advice to get this girl.

jcj001

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Hey! Can anybody help me out here. I'm a freshman at a university and I'm attrative to this girl I met here on campus. We been introduced once by our friends and things went pretty well. We only talked for about 5 minutes at the most only because she was busy with school work. But, I did found out that She is also a freshman, plays on the golf team, Catholic, and she is from Mexico. She's my dream girl I always wanted. Now every time we see each other going to our classes, with a smile, we'll both say "hi" and go on. I want to spend more time with her as well as getting to know her more. Does anybody have any advice to give me to reel her in. Any help would be appreciated.

Sincerely

jcj001
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's my dream girl I always wanted"

is why you will fail

ditch that attitude and then i'll come back with some advice
 

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Stop her and talk to her. Ask her if she's into golf and see if she'd like to play this weekend (You know, but does she know you know? Maybe putt-putt).

I dunno, that's what I'd do. If you have lots of stuff in common ask her to get together and do one of those things. It doesnt have to be a date at first, but rather just a way of getting her number and going out with her.
 
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