"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need some advice to get this girl.

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Hey! Can anybody help me out here. I'm a freshman at a university and I'm attrative to this girl I met here on campus. We been introduced once by our friends and things went pretty well. We only talked for about 5 minutes at the most only because she was busy with school work. But, I did found out that She is also a freshman, plays on the golf team, Catholic, and she is from Mexico. She's my dream girl I always wanted. Now every time we see each other going to our classes, with a smile, we'll both say "hi" and go on. I want to spend more time with her as well as getting to know her more. Does anybody have any advice to give me to reel her in. Any help would be appreciated.

Sincerely

jcj001
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's my dream girl I always wanted"

is why you will fail

ditch that attitude and then i'll come back with some advice
 
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Stop her and talk to her. Ask her if she's into golf and see if she'd like to play this weekend (You know, but does she know you know? Maybe putt-putt).

I dunno, that's what I'd do. If you have lots of stuff in common ask her to get together and do one of those things. It doesnt have to be a date at first, but rather just a way of getting her number and going out with her.
 
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