PatrickSuavzee
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2017
- Messages
- 10
- Reaction score
- 3
- Age
- 35
1. Met this girl around 1.5 month ago.
2. Hit it off very well , had sex within 3 dates.
3. she pursued me for 2-3 weeks solid , taking initiative to make dates with me
4. tons of steamy sex.
5. eventually i became a little clingy . not too much.
6. had some arguments , nothing too dramatic. she becomes flaky.
7. gave me the " not ready for a relationship " speech
8. told her " we never had a relationship , don't know you that well to have that connection with you "
9. interest goes up.
10.next day messages me again , " out of interest. "
11. tell her that unless she is willing to see me , im not interested. she becomes a little butthurt writing me a long wall of text about how she doesn't appreciate this kind of treatment. but i stand my ground. ( I blew her off )
12. the following days I see she is observing me on facebook and instagram, liking some of my posts etc.
13. yesterday ( 5 days later ) I had a live broadcast with my friends , had a little chat with them. She shows up and messages me in the chat. tells me " she has connection problems but came back to hear me speak "
14. I acknowledge her , but remain centered calm and cool . She stays a while , then tells me she has to go and tells me " goodnight " in the broadcast chat. Her best friend who was hanging with her at that moment adds me on facebook.
15. Same night go out with a girl friend ( ****buddy ) I upload videos of us having fun in the club ( nothing steamy ). She sees them.
My question is that even though I told her " unless you're gonna get your pretty little butt up and come find me I'm not interested " and she showed that she got butt-hurt she still stuck around , observing ALL of my stories on facebook and even joining in on my live broadcast.
I am skeptical about contacting her at this point . She's showing that not only is she not uninterested , but she's also kind of chasing/stalking me on FB.
Text ? Or hold onto my **** indefinitely?
2. Hit it off very well , had sex within 3 dates.
3. she pursued me for 2-3 weeks solid , taking initiative to make dates with me
4. tons of steamy sex.
5. eventually i became a little clingy . not too much.
6. had some arguments , nothing too dramatic. she becomes flaky.
7. gave me the " not ready for a relationship " speech
8. told her " we never had a relationship , don't know you that well to have that connection with you "
9. interest goes up.
10.next day messages me again , " out of interest. "
11. tell her that unless she is willing to see me , im not interested. she becomes a little butthurt writing me a long wall of text about how she doesn't appreciate this kind of treatment. but i stand my ground. ( I blew her off )
12. the following days I see she is observing me on facebook and instagram, liking some of my posts etc.
13. yesterday ( 5 days later ) I had a live broadcast with my friends , had a little chat with them. She shows up and messages me in the chat. tells me " she has connection problems but came back to hear me speak "
14. I acknowledge her , but remain centered calm and cool . She stays a while , then tells me she has to go and tells me " goodnight " in the broadcast chat. Her best friend who was hanging with her at that moment adds me on facebook.
15. Same night go out with a girl friend ( ****buddy ) I upload videos of us having fun in the club ( nothing steamy ). She sees them.
My question is that even though I told her " unless you're gonna get your pretty little butt up and come find me I'm not interested " and she showed that she got butt-hurt she still stuck around , observing ALL of my stories on facebook and even joining in on my live broadcast.
I am skeptical about contacting her at this point . She's showing that not only is she not uninterested , but she's also kind of chasing/stalking me on FB.
Text ? Or hold onto my **** indefinitely?
