There's about a week of school left, and there's this chick i met last friday who's in my class. On the way out I found a stupid reason to spark a conversation with her then asked her if she didn't mind me comming along with her walkin back to her dorm (she lives by me anyway so it wasn't like I was stalking). Well while walking back I chatted her up, she had a high IL, laughing, etc... I was stupid and didn't get her phone number before we left, she just said I'll hope to see you around sometime, I said sure you probably will (stupid mistake). Anyway, I'll see her again this friday.. I'm thinkin im just gonna say this with a freaking week left i got nothing to lose "I would really like to get to know you, even though there isn't much of the semester left, I felt I had to get it off my chest.. was wondering if you wanted to do something sometime this weekend... if so that's cool, if not no big deal" that's all I can come up with.. if you guys got a better approach shoot..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Need some advice on this situation
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Sure, Slick. Remember it is not so much what you say, rather how you say it. So play it cool, Daddy-O', and you will be~
Next time, DO NOT FORGET TO CLOSE THE DEAL! Because that just wouldn't be cool, now would it?...
Next time, DO NOT FORGET TO CLOSE THE DEAL! Because that just wouldn't be cool, now would it?...
macknetikcharm
Don Juan
Forget all the fluff===> it makez U sound like a bytch. Just say: """We should do sumthin' this weekend, what's U're phone #?"""========> ah*?
Just go To her with a massive smile a small wink and say
hey I know this cool place they make the most plesurable milkshakes ever urll be crazy to miss out
if she says no say yeah i fell out on milk when i was a baby care to dance
hey I know this cool place they make the most plesurable milkshakes ever urll be crazy to miss out
if she says no say yeah i fell out on milk when i was a baby care to dance
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HI MAN
HI MAN
You don’t have to make it big deal. You seem like you missed the biggest opportunity of your life, which isn’t.
NOW, don’t talk like that because isn’t the DJs way. It shows that you want her so bad, and that you are so easy to get. It also gives her all the power whether she will accept you or reject you.
I really don’t know her but if she is fun person you can try this.
You: hey, what is up (remember smile)
Her: hey great bla, bala, bala
You: look at her face and dont say anything.
Her: WHAT!
You: shake your head and say: YOU ARE A BAD GIRL. (SMILLE)
HER: WHAT! Why?
You: what did you do last night. I know. Is that what keeps you wake? (Oh my GOD).
Her: what?
You: ihi..ihi (with an eye brow)
If she hits you or smile YOU ARE IN THE GAME. Keep talking like that. Keep rolling thebal. Make her fun of it.
If she gets upset then she isn’t good mood or something is wrong with her. WHO CARES?
I hope it will work.
REMEMBER: DON’T, DON’T EVER BE NERVOUS.
HI MAN
You don’t have to make it big deal. You seem like you missed the biggest opportunity of your life, which isn’t.
NOW, don’t talk like that because isn’t the DJs way. It shows that you want her so bad, and that you are so easy to get. It also gives her all the power whether she will accept you or reject you.
I really don’t know her but if she is fun person you can try this.
You: hey, what is up (remember smile)
Her: hey great bla, bala, bala
You: look at her face and dont say anything.
Her: WHAT!
You: shake your head and say: YOU ARE A BAD GIRL. (SMILLE)
HER: WHAT! Why?
You: what did you do last night. I know. Is that what keeps you wake? (Oh my GOD).
Her: what?
You: ihi..ihi (with an eye brow)
If she hits you or smile YOU ARE IN THE GAME. Keep talking like that. Keep rolling thebal. Make her fun of it.
If she gets upset then she isn’t good mood or something is wrong with her. WHO CARES?
I hope it will work.
REMEMBER: DON’T, DON’T EVER BE NERVOUS.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Rick James,
She knows you already like her - this is obvious since no guy asks a girl to walk with her because he is afraid!! She was waiting for you to pop the question but you failed! I hope you do better than this on your final exams!!! You might as well finish the job this week or else she is going to think you are a wuss to wait 5 months until next semester - or if you ever see her again for that matter!!
Do it! Do it now!!
She knows you already like her - this is obvious since no guy asks a girl to walk with her because he is afraid!! She was waiting for you to pop the question but you failed! I hope you do better than this on your final exams!!! You might as well finish the job this week or else she is going to think you are a wuss to wait 5 months until next semester - or if you ever see her again for that matter!!
Do it! Do it now!!