"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some advice on this situation

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There's about a week of school left, and there's this chick i met last friday who's in my class. On the way out I found a stupid reason to spark a conversation with her then asked her if she didn't mind me comming along with her walkin back to her dorm (she lives by me anyway so it wasn't like I was stalking). Well while walking back I chatted her up, she had a high IL, laughing, etc... I was stupid and didn't get her phone number before we left, she just said I'll hope to see you around sometime, I said sure you probably will (stupid mistake). Anyway, I'll see her again this friday.. I'm thinkin im just gonna say this with a freaking week left i got nothing to lose "I would really like to get to know you, even though there isn't much of the semester left, I felt I had to get it off my chest.. was wondering if you wanted to do something sometime this weekend... if so that's cool, if not no big deal" that's all I can come up with.. if you guys got a better approach shoot..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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am4591

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That's fine but word it differently. Instead of "I was wondering if....", something along the lines of "Let's go and, etc." Also have a specific day and thing to do.
 

Spike_the_cowboy

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Sure, Slick. Remember it is not so much what you say, rather how you say it. So play it cool, Daddy-O', and you will be~

Next time, DO NOT FORGET TO CLOSE THE DEAL! Because that just wouldn't be cool, now would it?...

:cool:
 

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Forget all the fluff===> it makez U sound like a bytch. Just say: """We should do sumthin' this weekend, what's U're phone #?"""========> ah*?
 

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Just go To her with a massive smile a small wink and say
hey I know this cool place they make the most plesurable milkshakes ever urll be crazy to miss out

if she says no say yeah i fell out on milk when i was a baby care to dance :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HI MAN

HI MAN

You don’t have to make it big deal. You seem like you missed the biggest opportunity of your life, which isn’t.

NOW, don’t talk like that because isn’t the DJs way. It shows that you want her so bad, and that you are so easy to get. It also gives her all the power whether she will accept you or reject you.

I really don’t know her but if she is fun person you can try this.
You: hey, what is up (remember smile)
Her: hey great bla, bala, bala
You: look at her face and dont say anything.
Her: WHAT!
You: shake your head and say: YOU ARE A BAD GIRL. (SMILLE)
HER: WHAT! Why?
You: what did you do last night. I know. Is that what keeps you wake? (Oh my GOD).
Her: what?
You: ihi..ihi (with an eye brow)
If she hits you or smile YOU ARE IN THE GAME. Keep talking like that. Keep rolling thebal. Make her fun of it.
If she gets upset then she isn’t good mood or something is wrong with her. WHO CARES?

I hope it will work.
REMEMBER: DON’T, DON’T EVER BE NERVOUS.
 
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Rick James,

She knows you already like her - this is obvious since no guy asks a girl to walk with her because he is afraid!! She was waiting for you to pop the question but you failed! I hope you do better than this on your final exams!!! You might as well finish the job this week or else she is going to think you are a wuss to wait 5 months until next semester - or if you ever see her again for that matter!!

Do it! Do it now!!
 
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