"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need some advice on a possible BPD Ex

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Sabol

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She dumped me over a text about a week and a half ago. I said ok.

Haven't heard from her until tonight.

I get about 10 calls and texts where she claims that I gave her an STD. Impossible

I keep a strict no contact policy and ignore everything.

Then she threatens to tell everyone of her friends to go on facebook and say that I gave her an STD. And she will pull up my police record and blacklist me from every Advertising Agency in Los Angeles (I work in advertising). And then she will make my life a living hell.

I'm continuing to ignore her.

Please tell me that this hell will stop and I can move on with my life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rikudo

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Well men i dont know you should record the things she says to you just in case she does that thing with police or so you have stalker matrial from her another thing is you should talk with her try to do your best if not then you need to tell the police about her.
 
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Sabol

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I have every text message recorded. I'm not going to talk to her. That's like negotiating with terrorists. She's insane.

I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and what they have done.

I might file a restraining order soon if it gets any worse.
 
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Johnnyventana

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Sabol - these types are extreme. Do a search at bpdfamily.com. I have read similar things there with threats of police and destroying the guy. You may have to preemptively get a restraining order.
 
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