"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some advice on a possible BPD Ex

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Sabol

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She dumped me over a text about a week and a half ago. I said ok.

Haven't heard from her until tonight.

I get about 10 calls and texts where she claims that I gave her an STD. Impossible

I keep a strict no contact policy and ignore everything.

Then she threatens to tell everyone of her friends to go on facebook and say that I gave her an STD. And she will pull up my police record and blacklist me from every Advertising Agency in Los Angeles (I work in advertising). And then she will make my life a living hell.

I'm continuing to ignore her.

Please tell me that this hell will stop and I can move on with my life.
 

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Well men i dont know you should record the things she says to you just in case she does that thing with police or so you have stalker matrial from her another thing is you should talk with her try to do your best if not then you need to tell the police about her.
 
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I have every text message recorded. I'm not going to talk to her. That's like negotiating with terrorists. She's insane.

I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and what they have done.

I might file a restraining order soon if it gets any worse.
 
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Sabol - these types are extreme. Do a search at bpdfamily.com. I have read similar things there with threats of police and destroying the guy. You may have to preemptively get a restraining order.
 
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