"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need some advice on a possible BPD Ex

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Sabol

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She dumped me over a text about a week and a half ago. I said ok.

Haven't heard from her until tonight.

I get about 10 calls and texts where she claims that I gave her an STD. Impossible

I keep a strict no contact policy and ignore everything.

Then she threatens to tell everyone of her friends to go on facebook and say that I gave her an STD. And she will pull up my police record and blacklist me from every Advertising Agency in Los Angeles (I work in advertising). And then she will make my life a living hell.

I'm continuing to ignore her.

Please tell me that this hell will stop and I can move on with my life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well men i dont know you should record the things she says to you just in case she does that thing with police or so you have stalker matrial from her another thing is you should talk with her try to do your best if not then you need to tell the police about her.
 
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I have every text message recorded. I'm not going to talk to her. That's like negotiating with terrorists. She's insane.

I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and what they have done.

I might file a restraining order soon if it gets any worse.
 
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Sabol - these types are extreme. Do a search at bpdfamily.com. I have read similar things there with threats of police and destroying the guy. You may have to preemptively get a restraining order.
 
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