"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJoneday

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My situation:
Went out with hb9 as an exclusive couple for two dates. She's never made out with anyone before, and since we were in a group both times she was a little uncomfortable about doing it there. So last saturday a combo of her dad not liking my being a junior without a license, and us not seeing eachother that often caused us to break up. She still wants to see me and all, but until I get my license (couple months), we're not officially going out.

Question:
Tonight we're going to a party (no alcohol) and I was thinking about going for the kiss/make out (possibly) still, but I'm not sure if it's such a good idea with us having "broken up" a week ago. She still says she likes me, and wants to keep hanging out until I get my license to see how things are there. What do you guys suggest I do as far as this whole thing goes at the party tonight?

This would help me out an assload, thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jiza101

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Why the fuk does having a license matter so much.. I smell some using.. Once u get ure license i recon she will abuse it and make you drive her everywhere

*PS* what ****ign license are you talking about ?
 
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Broken up? High school relationships aren't real relationships. They aren't even a pseudo relationship. On the scale of relationship evolution they're ham-strung between Ameobas and lichen. There is no 'breaking up', there is only 'I like you and my stomach feels funny' and not.

I say go for it. You have absolutely nothing to lose, and you're taking this waaaaaaaaaaay too seriously.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 
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Driver's license - and she's going to be getting hers around the same time as me - we just go to diff. schools and don't see eachother that much to the license matters. Tonight I'm going to see if I can't get her to make out. Not leaving for about an hour to any more comments would be hella helpful. Thanks.
 
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you're "going out" and havn't kissed and you broke up and you're going for the first kiss?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJoneday

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Yeah, it's a pretty fvcked up situation. Got the kiss last night though.

One of the reasons I'm not just next'ing the hell out of her is that I'd been looking for a challenge for a while (had no problem getting girls that'd do whatever I wanted on the first night), and this girl was innocent and I made a bad first impression on her (high on vicaden from hurting leg, friend of another ex) and so I wanted to actually put a challenge in front of myself for once. And I got it.
 
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