"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Need some advice in the next two hours...

DJoneday

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My situation:
Went out with hb9 as an exclusive couple for two dates. She's never made out with anyone before, and since we were in a group both times she was a little uncomfortable about doing it there. So last saturday a combo of her dad not liking my being a junior without a license, and us not seeing eachother that often caused us to break up. She still wants to see me and all, but until I get my license (couple months), we're not officially going out.

Question:
Tonight we're going to a party (no alcohol) and I was thinking about going for the kiss/make out (possibly) still, but I'm not sure if it's such a good idea with us having "broken up" a week ago. She still says she likes me, and wants to keep hanging out until I get my license to see how things are there. What do you guys suggest I do as far as this whole thing goes at the party tonight?

This would help me out an assload, thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jiza101

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Why the fuk does having a license matter so much.. I smell some using.. Once u get ure license i recon she will abuse it and make you drive her everywhere

*PS* what ****ign license are you talking about ?
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Broken up? High school relationships aren't real relationships. They aren't even a pseudo relationship. On the scale of relationship evolution they're ham-strung between Ameobas and lichen. There is no 'breaking up', there is only 'I like you and my stomach feels funny' and not.

I say go for it. You have absolutely nothing to lose, and you're taking this waaaaaaaaaaay too seriously.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

DJoneday

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Driver's license - and she's going to be getting hers around the same time as me - we just go to diff. schools and don't see eachother that much to the license matters. Tonight I'm going to see if I can't get her to make out. Not leaving for about an hour to any more comments would be hella helpful. Thanks.
 

LikRetsam

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you're "going out" and havn't kissed and you broke up and you're going for the first kiss?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJoneday

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Yeah, it's a pretty fvcked up situation. Got the kiss last night though.

One of the reasons I'm not just next'ing the hell out of her is that I'd been looking for a challenge for a while (had no problem getting girls that'd do whatever I wanted on the first night), and this girl was innocent and I made a bad first impression on her (high on vicaden from hurting leg, friend of another ex) and so I wanted to actually put a challenge in front of myself for once. And I got it.
 
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