Need Some Advanced Text Game Help

[Zimbabwe]

Ok so last month i matched with this chick and it didn't go so well because i asked for her number in the first message. I deleted my account and have recently gone back to the dating app Coffee Meets Bagel.



To my surprise she matched with me again today, now what do i text her with? Do i acknowledge the past?

 

[Plinco]

I'm no expert in texting but I would act like it didn't happen.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Since the weekend is coming up, ask her what her plans are. Avoid mentioning the prior texts. Ideally you want a "hook" to use within the first few messages before asking for her number. For me, I ask if she's had any guitar serenades recently. If you're a great cook, mention that you're preparing a great meal for friends. Some kind of DHV where she can be potentially included is what you want.

 

[jaymbrs]

What was her response when you asked for her number?

 

[Zimbabwe]

What was her response when you asked for her number?

 

[SW15]

There’s really no reason to get her number unless you make plans with her. The objective is getting her to agree to a get together (whether via cold approach or app swiping). A number is not an end goal ever.

Also, when swiping & texting, starting with a doughnut emoji & asking for a number is not good game. You need to banter a bit first.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Stop with the emojis. It comes across as feminine and insecure. She wants that bold, direct male energy when she is asked for her number (and at the appropriate time). That conveys social calibration.
A man who has his sh!t together doesn’t use cartoons to represent him and his desires.

 

[devilkingx2]

To my surprise she matched with me again today, now what do i text her with? Do i acknowledge the past?

If it didn't go well you obviously pretend it never happened unless she mentions or references it (then you brush it off or pretend to forget)

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She seems like a b!tchy waste of time imo.

Imagine yourself as a performer on a stage and she's in the crowd heckling you from literally joke 1/song 1 lol.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Jesus Christ this is bad OP. Knock off the emojis. Talk to her like a normal human would.

“Hey how are you”

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Im with @devilkingx2 on this one. She sounds like a time waster. Hope Im wrong