Need serious help

[Westwind]

Lately i've been pretty down about stuff. Like it seems like everyone is dating someone at work, school, on the street where ever it just seems like everyone is with someone. And i'm not. I feel like a loser kinda.

Also i haven't really been partying lately, that just adds on. I can't really seem to find any parties to go to.

At first i just kept sayin to myself it will get better, but it doesn't. I'm actually just really pissed about all of this ****.

I need some action you know, and i just can't seem to find anyone.


Can someone throw a suggestion or something to help. Thanks

 

[HandyAndy]

dj bible

 

[collegeEJ]

I seem to be in a bit of a slump too.

I had a girl come over for a little while earlier, but it doesn't seem like she's as into me as she was a month ago.

I could have gone with a friend to see the fight at his parents' house, but I didn't go and haven't answered my pnone tonight.

I just am feelin' a little down in the dumps if you know what I mean due to a couple girls I've been gamin' not showin as much interest the last few days (not responding to text, etc.)

Anyways, things always get better, and when it does I always wonder why I was feeling upset when I knew all along things would get better anyways.

 

[BCOMusic]

Spend some time on yourself and getting your life together. Don't worry about why you don't have a girl, because the girl is not the meaning.

Yourself, and making sure you have inner game is the only thing.

Inner game is a thirst for life. A passion for life and waking up every day, loving it, spreading joy to everyone around you

up the time you spend on yourself by 5, downgrade the time you spend on women by 5, and you will have 10 girls knocking at your door...

have some faith, it really works

 

[Bible_Belt]

it seems like everyone is dating someone .... And i'm not. I feel like a loser

There have been a lot of posts about this lately. You have to learn to be happy by yourself, and that starts with not defining yourself and your status by the hb on your arm or lack of one at the moment. Then you're confident and fun, which is what gets girls.

More importantly, if you can be happy alone, then you keep your willingness to walk away, which will keep you from AFC'ing up your relationships when you do happen into them.

 

[Westwind]

Thanks that stuff is pretty helpful.