"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lately i've been pretty down about stuff. Like it seems like everyone is dating someone at work, school, on the street where ever it just seems like everyone is with someone. And i'm not. I feel like a loser kinda.

Also i haven't really been partying lately, that just adds on. I can't really seem to find any parties to go to.

At first i just kept sayin to myself it will get better, but it doesn't. I'm actually just really pissed about all of this ****.

I need some action you know, and i just can't seem to find anyone.


Can someone throw a suggestion or something to help. Thanks:(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I seem to be in a bit of a slump too.

I had a girl come over for a little while earlier, but it doesn't seem like she's as into me as she was a month ago.

I could have gone with a friend to see the fight at his parents' house, but I didn't go and haven't answered my pnone tonight.

I just am feelin' a little down in the dumps if you know what I mean due to a couple girls I've been gamin' not showin as much interest the last few days (not responding to text, etc.)

Anyways, things always get better, and when it does I always wonder why I was feeling upset when I knew all along things would get better anyways.
 
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Spend some time on yourself and getting your life together. Don't worry about why you don't have a girl, because the girl is not the meaning.

Yourself, and making sure you have inner game is the only thing.

Inner game is a thirst for life. A passion for life and waking up every day, loving it, spreading joy to everyone around you :cool:

up the time you spend on yourself by 5, downgrade the time you spend on women by 5, and you will have 10 girls knocking at your door...

have some faith, it really works
 
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it seems like everyone is dating someone .... And i'm not. I feel like a loser

There have been a lot of posts about this lately. You have to learn to be happy by yourself, and that starts with not defining yourself and your status by the hb on your arm or lack of one at the moment. Then you're confident and fun, which is what gets girls.

More importantly, if you can be happy alone, then you keep your willingness to walk away, which will keep you from AFC'ing up your relationships when you do happen into them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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