Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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need quick tips before date

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i know its normal to feel a bit nervous before a date or get together whichever you prefer. any quick thoughts to keep in mind to transform my nervous mind into an excited, ready to have fun one?

right now my brain keeps trying to draw out the night and its ruining the flow of just having fun that i want to happen naturally.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ummm i assume its date 1, What are you doing........action dates(one where you are involved in doing something physical....not sex silly) are the best.

Less conversation more action as Elvis once said.

First dates are for confirming there is some chemistry, compatibility, as well as getting to know one another.

Kino is essential to increasing the attraction (so read the kino article I just wrote)

Leave on a high note........dont make it too long, dates that exceed an hour are either a prelude to sex or boredom.

C&F/NEGS work wonders but remember to use in proper dosage depending on the type of chic u are with.

Do NOT project too much interest, lean back, play it cool, never confirm or deny your interest level.

THE REST.............make it up as you go, its hanging out, qualifying her to see if she is worthy of date 2.

I would wish U luck but PICK-UP artists make their own luck.

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its too cold for much activity stuff so we're goin to a movie
 

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Keep in mind that she's going out with you to get lucky and have sex.. Whenever you talk to her, keep that in mind, and whatever you do must create an opportunity for you to get closer to her, privately..

Make it a point to go a little further, assume you're allowed to take it a bit further than you think you can.. Such as, ask her if she wants to go back to your place to watch another movie. You get that far, show her your bedroom, cuddle, kiss, whatever.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Have a few beers.

It's all in your MIND. Get you head in the right mind set and you should be fine. Don't over complicate this....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the best state of mind before a date is to KNOW you can make any girl fall in love with you

then you just wing it and have fun
 
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