"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need quick tips before date

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i know its normal to feel a bit nervous before a date or get together whichever you prefer. any quick thoughts to keep in mind to transform my nervous mind into an excited, ready to have fun one?

right now my brain keeps trying to draw out the night and its ruining the flow of just having fun that i want to happen naturally.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ummm i assume its date 1, What are you doing........action dates(one where you are involved in doing something physical....not sex silly) are the best.

Less conversation more action as Elvis once said.

First dates are for confirming there is some chemistry, compatibility, as well as getting to know one another.

Kino is essential to increasing the attraction (so read the kino article I just wrote)

Leave on a high note........dont make it too long, dates that exceed an hour are either a prelude to sex or boredom.

C&F/NEGS work wonders but remember to use in proper dosage depending on the type of chic u are with.

Do NOT project too much interest, lean back, play it cool, never confirm or deny your interest level.

THE REST.............make it up as you go, its hanging out, qualifying her to see if she is worthy of date 2.

I would wish U luck but PICK-UP artists make their own luck.

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its too cold for much activity stuff so we're goin to a movie
 

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Keep in mind that she's going out with you to get lucky and have sex.. Whenever you talk to her, keep that in mind, and whatever you do must create an opportunity for you to get closer to her, privately..

Make it a point to go a little further, assume you're allowed to take it a bit further than you think you can.. Such as, ask her if she wants to go back to your place to watch another movie. You get that far, show her your bedroom, cuddle, kiss, whatever.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Have a few beers.

It's all in your MIND. Get you head in the right mind set and you should be fine. Don't over complicate this....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the best state of mind before a date is to KNOW you can make any girl fall in love with you

then you just wing it and have fun
 
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