"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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need quick tips before date

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i know its normal to feel a bit nervous before a date or get together whichever you prefer. any quick thoughts to keep in mind to transform my nervous mind into an excited, ready to have fun one?

right now my brain keeps trying to draw out the night and its ruining the flow of just having fun that i want to happen naturally.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ummm i assume its date 1, What are you doing........action dates(one where you are involved in doing something physical....not sex silly) are the best.

Less conversation more action as Elvis once said.

First dates are for confirming there is some chemistry, compatibility, as well as getting to know one another.

Kino is essential to increasing the attraction (so read the kino article I just wrote)

Leave on a high note........dont make it too long, dates that exceed an hour are either a prelude to sex or boredom.

C&F/NEGS work wonders but remember to use in proper dosage depending on the type of chic u are with.

Do NOT project too much interest, lean back, play it cool, never confirm or deny your interest level.

THE REST.............make it up as you go, its hanging out, qualifying her to see if she is worthy of date 2.

I would wish U luck but PICK-UP artists make their own luck.

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its too cold for much activity stuff so we're goin to a movie
 

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Keep in mind that she's going out with you to get lucky and have sex.. Whenever you talk to her, keep that in mind, and whatever you do must create an opportunity for you to get closer to her, privately..

Make it a point to go a little further, assume you're allowed to take it a bit further than you think you can.. Such as, ask her if she wants to go back to your place to watch another movie. You get that far, show her your bedroom, cuddle, kiss, whatever.
 

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Have a few beers.

It's all in your MIND. Get you head in the right mind set and you should be fine. Don't over complicate this....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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the best state of mind before a date is to KNOW you can make any girl fall in love with you

then you just wing it and have fun
 
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