The girl I've been talking to just asked me if I like or think any of her friends are cute.. and she told me to "be honest". Is this some sort of test? I don't know whether I should be honest.. not tell her.. or what.. I do think one of her friends is cute, but this girl is kind of insecure.. so I think telling her that might make things worse. Wtf should I do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Themanthatcan
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Not quite sure but I'd say something like "The real question is.......do any of your friends think I look good?"
Mmmmm Amy. (Cindy, wendy?)
You know what they say about women who ask these types of questions?
Dont tell her anything when she asks what, just act like you know.
Then, after a while, but not too long.
I like your friend Cindy....
- Why?
I cant put my finger on it... I think shes hot, and has great personality, everything Im looking for in a woman.............. Im gonna have to break it up with you and ask her out.
Say that as you look far and having a mental pizzazz, like you really putting thought into this... I would qualify that type of question as her trying to hook you up with someone else, not literally of course. But shes loosing interest. Let her chase it.
You know what they say about women who ask these types of questions?
Dont tell her anything when she asks what, just act like you know.
Then, after a while, but not too long.
I like your friend Cindy....
- Why?
I cant put my finger on it... I think shes hot, and has great personality, everything Im looking for in a woman.............. Im gonna have to break it up with you and ask her out.
Say that as you look far and having a mental pizzazz, like you really putting thought into this... I would qualify that type of question as her trying to hook you up with someone else, not literally of course. But shes loosing interest. Let her chase it.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
So annoying when women do this...just tell her that there are a lot of cute girls out there, but she's the one that catches your eye or something like that. She really shouldn't be asking you this in the first place.
Yeah, I already started talking to her again. I was stalling, but finally I gave it to her truthfully. I told her one of her friends I thought was cute, but that she was the one I liked and that she was my favorite. So I think I winged myself out of that one.. hopefully.
And tbh, I think the only reason she asked was because she was insecure.
And tbh, I think the only reason she asked was because she was insecure.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
^^^^That woman obviously dont flirt. Her advice will make your girl at peace, you want conflict to make her wet. If she wants peace shell have to work for it to earn it.
There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
Hey, I told you what to say, you listened to that chick advice and you got rejected. Learn that what you did does not work, stop being a nice guy wuss bagg.
That fvcking friend you mentioned, go to her and start flirting with her. Done! Do it, dont think about it and dont wait.
And by the way, you werent rejected. She just wants you to chase her, which you not going to do. Youll chase her friend. Gonna make her mad!!!!!!!!!
That fvcking friend you mentioned, go to her and start flirting with her. Done! Do it, dont think about it and dont wait.
And by the way, you werent rejected. She just wants you to chase her, which you not going to do. Youll chase her friend. Gonna make her mad!!!!!!!!!
Only reason I became nice.
She was a younger girl.
Was a freshman.
Was insecure.
++ Last time I persued a younger girl and put "teh game" on her, she totally freaked out.. and didn't know what to do.
Maybe this chick has more experience than I thought.
Or maybe I'm doing something wrong.
But yeah.. I sure as hell aint chasing her. Fsck that.
She was a younger girl.
Was a freshman.
Was insecure.
++ Last time I persued a younger girl and put "teh game" on her, she totally freaked out.. and didn't know what to do.
Maybe this chick has more experience than I thought.
Or maybe I'm doing something wrong.
But yeah.. I sure as hell aint chasing her. Fsck that.
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Say this, "To be honest, I am attracted to them all more than I am attracted to you! But I think you are the easiest that will "put out"!!!"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
banGbro said:^^^^That woman obviously dont flirt. Her advice will make your girl at peace, you want conflict to make her wet. If she wants peace shell have to work for it to earn it.
There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
I think this post should go to the hall of fame for useful posts.
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I've read it and think that you are 'on" crack cocaine!!!rrrrr said:I think this post should go to the hall of fame for useful posts.