"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The girl I've been talking to just asked me if I like or think any of her friends are cute.. and she told me to "be honest". Is this some sort of test? I don't know whether I should be honest.. not tell her.. or what.. I do think one of her friends is cute, but this girl is kind of insecure.. so I think telling her that might make things worse. Wtf should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not quite sure but I'd say something like "The real question is.......do any of your friends think I look good?"
 

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Mmmmm Amy. (Cindy, wendy?)


You know what they say about women who ask these types of questions?


Dont tell her anything when she asks what, just act like you know.



Then, after a while, but not too long.


I like your friend Cindy....

- Why?

I cant put my finger on it... I think shes hot, and has great personality, everything Im looking for in a woman.............. Im gonna have to break it up with you and ask her out.

Say that as you look far and having a mental pizzazz, like you really putting thought into this... I would qualify that type of question as her trying to hook you up with someone else, not literally of course. But shes loosing interest. Let her chase it.
 

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Yeah, I already started talking to her again. I was stalling, but finally I gave it to her truthfully. I told her one of her friends I thought was cute, but that she was the one I liked and that she was my favorite. So I think I winged myself out of that one.. hopefully.

And tbh, I think the only reason she asked was because she was insecure.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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^^^^That woman obviously dont flirt. Her advice will make your girl at peace, you want conflict to make her wet. If she wants peace shell have to work for it to earn it.



There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
 

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Nvm.. just got rejected.. burnnnnnn

hahaha oh well. there's always her friend right?
 

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Hey, I told you what to say, you listened to that chick advice and you got rejected. Learn that what you did does not work, stop being a nice guy wuss bagg.

That fvcking friend you mentioned, go to her and start flirting with her. Done! Do it, dont think about it and dont wait.



And by the way, you werent rejected. She just wants you to chase her, which you not going to do. Youll chase her friend. Gonna make her mad!!!!!!!!!
 

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Only reason I became nice.

She was a younger girl.
Was a freshman.
Was insecure.
++ Last time I persued a younger girl and put "teh game" on her, she totally freaked out.. and didn't know what to do.
Maybe this chick has more experience than I thought.
Or maybe I'm doing something wrong.

But yeah.. I sure as hell aint chasing her. Fsck that.
 
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Say this, "To be honest, I am attracted to them all more than I am attracted to you! But I think you are the easiest that will "put out"!!!"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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banGbro said:
^^^^That woman obviously dont flirt. Her advice will make your girl at peace, you want conflict to make her wet. If she wants peace shell have to work for it to earn it.



There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.

I think this post should go to the hall of fame for useful posts.
 
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rrrrr said:
I think this post should go to the hall of fame for useful posts.
I've read it and think that you are 'on" crack cocaine!!!
 
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