The girl I've been talking to just asked me if I like or think any of her friends are cute.. and she told me to "be honest". Is this some sort of test? I don't know whether I should be honest.. not tell her.. or what.. I do think one of her friends is cute, but this girl is kind of insecure.. so I think telling her that might make things worse. Wtf should I do?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Themanthatcan
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Not quite sure but I'd say something like "The real question is.......do any of your friends think I look good?"
Mmmmm Amy. (Cindy, wendy?)
You know what they say about women who ask these types of questions?
Dont tell her anything when she asks what, just act like you know.
Then, after a while, but not too long.
I like your friend Cindy....
- Why?
I cant put my finger on it... I think shes hot, and has great personality, everything Im looking for in a woman.............. Im gonna have to break it up with you and ask her out.
Say that as you look far and having a mental pizzazz, like you really putting thought into this... I would qualify that type of question as her trying to hook you up with someone else, not literally of course. But shes loosing interest. Let her chase it.
You know what they say about women who ask these types of questions?
Dont tell her anything when she asks what, just act like you know.
Then, after a while, but not too long.
I like your friend Cindy....
- Why?
I cant put my finger on it... I think shes hot, and has great personality, everything Im looking for in a woman.............. Im gonna have to break it up with you and ask her out.
Say that as you look far and having a mental pizzazz, like you really putting thought into this... I would qualify that type of question as her trying to hook you up with someone else, not literally of course. But shes loosing interest. Let her chase it.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
So annoying when women do this...just tell her that there are a lot of cute girls out there, but she's the one that catches your eye or something like that. She really shouldn't be asking you this in the first place.
Yeah, I already started talking to her again. I was stalling, but finally I gave it to her truthfully. I told her one of her friends I thought was cute, but that she was the one I liked and that she was my favorite. So I think I winged myself out of that one.. hopefully.
And tbh, I think the only reason she asked was because she was insecure.
And tbh, I think the only reason she asked was because she was insecure.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
^^^^That woman obviously dont flirt. Her advice will make your girl at peace, you want conflict to make her wet. If she wants peace shell have to work for it to earn it.
There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
Hey, I told you what to say, you listened to that chick advice and you got rejected. Learn that what you did does not work, stop being a nice guy wuss bagg.
That fvcking friend you mentioned, go to her and start flirting with her. Done! Do it, dont think about it and dont wait.
And by the way, you werent rejected. She just wants you to chase her, which you not going to do. Youll chase her friend. Gonna make her mad!!!!!!!!!
That fvcking friend you mentioned, go to her and start flirting with her. Done! Do it, dont think about it and dont wait.
And by the way, you werent rejected. She just wants you to chase her, which you not going to do. Youll chase her friend. Gonna make her mad!!!!!!!!!
Only reason I became nice.
She was a younger girl.
Was a freshman.
Was insecure.
++ Last time I persued a younger girl and put "teh game" on her, she totally freaked out.. and didn't know what to do.
Maybe this chick has more experience than I thought.
Or maybe I'm doing something wrong.
But yeah.. I sure as hell aint chasing her. Fsck that.
She was a younger girl.
Was a freshman.
Was insecure.
++ Last time I persued a younger girl and put "teh game" on her, she totally freaked out.. and didn't know what to do.
Maybe this chick has more experience than I thought.
Or maybe I'm doing something wrong.
But yeah.. I sure as hell aint chasing her. Fsck that.
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Say this, "To be honest, I am attracted to them all more than I am attracted to you! But I think you are the easiest that will "put out"!!!"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
banGbro said:^^^^That woman obviously dont flirt. Her advice will make your girl at peace, you want conflict to make her wet. If she wants peace shell have to work for it to earn it.
There is still time to save it from going to borred hun side. Start flirting to that girl you mentioned to her.
I think this post should go to the hall of fame for useful posts.
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I've read it and think that you are 'on" crack cocaine!!!rrrrr said:I think this post should go to the hall of fame for useful posts.