"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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need MAJOR help on breaking up w. gf

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hey, im currently dating 2 girls, and i just really dont want to date this one girl anymore.. i just dont like her, idk how to explain it... anyway, ive never been good with break ups.

Im supposed to go to her school's Homecomign next week which i really dont want to, but I would feel like an ******* if I broke up w/ her before that.. i feel like such a jerk breaking up with her. can someone help me out? I feel so bad, ive been leading her on for a little bit just trying out some dj stuff, she really likes me but I need to end this NOW... PLS help
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, like he said, just tell her "lets be friends". Just remember, break ups happen. It's a part of the "circle of relatationships" COR.
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Well, like he said, just tell her "lets be friends". Just remember, break ups happen. It's a part of the "circle of relatationships" COR.
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We don't need an acronym for everything... :rolleyes:



Tell her you just want to be friends. But tell her you still want to go to homecoming with her. That'd be a really d*ck move to bail out on that with her. It'd probably actually be best to wait until after it to tell her you don't like her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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its all over now, my friend helped me out and its over , so much pressure about eveyrhintg is off me, i dont have to make up lies anymore to not hang out, its all over thx guys
 
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