"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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need MAJOR help on breaking up w. gf

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hey, im currently dating 2 girls, and i just really dont want to date this one girl anymore.. i just dont like her, idk how to explain it... anyway, ive never been good with break ups.

Im supposed to go to her school's Homecomign next week which i really dont want to, but I would feel like an ******* if I broke up w/ her before that.. i feel like such a jerk breaking up with her. can someone help me out? I feel so bad, ive been leading her on for a little bit just trying out some dj stuff, she really likes me but I need to end this NOW... PLS help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, like he said, just tell her "lets be friends". Just remember, break ups happen. It's a part of the "circle of relatationships" COR.
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Well, like he said, just tell her "lets be friends". Just remember, break ups happen. It's a part of the "circle of relatationships" COR.
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We don't need an acronym for everything... :rolleyes:



Tell her you just want to be friends. But tell her you still want to go to homecoming with her. That'd be a really d*ck move to bail out on that with her. It'd probably actually be best to wait until after it to tell her you don't like her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its all over now, my friend helped me out and its over , so much pressure about eveyrhintg is off me, i dont have to make up lies anymore to not hang out, its all over thx guys
 
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