"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need MAJOR help on breaking up w. gf

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hey, im currently dating 2 girls, and i just really dont want to date this one girl anymore.. i just dont like her, idk how to explain it... anyway, ive never been good with break ups.

Im supposed to go to her school's Homecomign next week which i really dont want to, but I would feel like an ******* if I broke up w/ her before that.. i feel like such a jerk breaking up with her. can someone help me out? I feel so bad, ive been leading her on for a little bit just trying out some dj stuff, she really likes me but I need to end this NOW... PLS help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, like he said, just tell her "lets be friends". Just remember, break ups happen. It's a part of the "circle of relatationships" COR.
 
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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Well, like he said, just tell her "lets be friends". Just remember, break ups happen. It's a part of the "circle of relatationships" COR.
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We don't need an acronym for everything... :rolleyes:



Tell her you just want to be friends. But tell her you still want to go to homecoming with her. That'd be a really d*ck move to bail out on that with her. It'd probably actually be best to wait until after it to tell her you don't like her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its all over now, my friend helped me out and its over , so much pressure about eveyrhintg is off me, i dont have to make up lies anymore to not hang out, its all over thx guys
 
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