"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need liquor suggestions for Fifths and Cuffs

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ciroc if your willing to throw down some extra $$$.
 

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So are you in trouble with your last alcohol-related incident? Might want to hold off the flavored vodka until sh!t settles down?
 

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So are you in trouble with your last alcohol-related incident?

That was my first thought, too.

It's not the liquor; it's how you treat it. Food is your friend - greasy, heavy food.

An ex of mine used to drink Malibu rum. It's kinda girly, but the stuff is good over ice. It's an easy liquor to share with girls, as are all the flavored ones. They take 10% of the alcohol out and replace it with sugar, which makes a more profitable product. If you like coffee, the coffee-flavored Patron tequila is excellent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt said:
So are you in trouble with your last alcohol-related incident?

That was my first thought, too.

It's not the liquor; it's how you treat it. Food is your friend - greasy, heavy food.

An ex of mine used to drink Malibu rum. It's kinda girly, but the stuff is good over ice. It's an easy liquor to share with girls, as are all the flavored ones. They take 10% of the alcohol out and replace it with sugar, which makes a more profitable product. If you like coffee, the coffee-flavored Patron tequila is excellent.
I expected those reactions, but my plan is that in the event that I get that drunk I could just pass out at the frat brother's house instead of trying to make it back to the dorms.
 
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