"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need liquor suggestions for Fifths and Cuffs

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ciroc if your willing to throw down some extra $$$.
 

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So are you in trouble with your last alcohol-related incident? Might want to hold off the flavored vodka until sh!t settles down?
 

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So are you in trouble with your last alcohol-related incident?

That was my first thought, too.

It's not the liquor; it's how you treat it. Food is your friend - greasy, heavy food.

An ex of mine used to drink Malibu rum. It's kinda girly, but the stuff is good over ice. It's an easy liquor to share with girls, as are all the flavored ones. They take 10% of the alcohol out and replace it with sugar, which makes a more profitable product. If you like coffee, the coffee-flavored Patron tequila is excellent.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt said:
So are you in trouble with your last alcohol-related incident?

That was my first thought, too.

It's not the liquor; it's how you treat it. Food is your friend - greasy, heavy food.

An ex of mine used to drink Malibu rum. It's kinda girly, but the stuff is good over ice. It's an easy liquor to share with girls, as are all the flavored ones. They take 10% of the alcohol out and replace it with sugar, which makes a more profitable product. If you like coffee, the coffee-flavored Patron tequila is excellent.
I expected those reactions, but my plan is that in the event that I get that drunk I could just pass out at the frat brother's house instead of trying to make it back to the dorms.
 
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