guys my convos with my gf have become boring. I cant think up of stuff to talk about when she calls me. My mind is kinda blank cuz their are no topics for me to talk about, there hard to think up of. Ill just be quiet trying to find things to relate to on what we are currently talking about. Ill get mentally lazy around my gurl idk why. What can I do. I need new thought patterns. thanks
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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- Thread starter kk2004
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i need to develop this issue cause i tend to talk to girls to long on the phone(1/2 hour to a2 hours). just ask the normal how as your day?,what did you do?,run off of those. i can make a conversation go for hours. be playful.
example
you "how was your day?"
her "great"
you"no way"
her "yes way"
you "what was so great about it?"
and when she is done talking,(if you had a more exciting day you could say something like )
you"thats cool and all but you cant beat my day"
her "hmm well then lets hear it"
stupid little lingo like that can go on for hours just make sure you through some c&f in there and put some steak on it.
example
you "how was your day?"
her "great"
you"no way"
her "yes way"
you "what was so great about it?"
and when she is done talking,(if you had a more exciting day you could say something like )
you"thats cool and all but you cant beat my day"
her "hmm well then lets hear it"
stupid little lingo like that can go on for hours just make sure you through some c&f in there and put some steak on it.
yeah
Yeah i do that,but Im pretty funny and convo like that is kinda boring, i want to have stimulating convo. Im really relaxed about myself and everything too. I guess what u guys are telling me to do is chill out but when I feel really good about myself I talk great
Yeah i do that,but Im pretty funny and convo like that is kinda boring, i want to have stimulating convo. Im really relaxed about myself and everything too. I guess what u guys are telling me to do is chill out but when I feel really good about myself I talk great
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i guess
Im placing too much empahsis on being suave funny witty etc. I want to be more funny suave and witty than i already am, thas how i feel inside. Like who I am is not enough or not good enough, when i should be saying it is. It just doesnt feel like it is good enough. I want that warm fuzzy feeling about myself I love it, it gives me alot of confidence
Im placing too much empahsis on being suave funny witty etc. I want to be more funny suave and witty than i already am, thas how i feel inside. Like who I am is not enough or not good enough, when i should be saying it is. It just doesnt feel like it is good enough. I want that warm fuzzy feeling about myself I love it, it gives me alot of confidence