guys my convos with my gf have become boring. I cant think up of stuff to talk about when she calls me. My mind is kinda blank cuz their are no topics for me to talk about, there hard to think up of. Ill just be quiet trying to find things to relate to on what we are currently talking about. Ill get mentally lazy around my gurl idk why. What can I do. I need new thought patterns. thanks
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i need to develop this issue cause i tend to talk to girls to long on the phone(1/2 hour to a2 hours). just ask the normal how as your day?,what did you do?,run off of those. i can make a conversation go for hours. be playful.
example
you "how was your day?"
her "great"
you"no way"
her "yes way"
you "what was so great about it?"
and when she is done talking,(if you had a more exciting day you could say something like )
you"thats cool and all but you cant beat my day"
her "hmm well then lets hear it"
stupid little lingo like that can go on for hours just make sure you through some c&f in there and put some steak on it.
example
you "how was your day?"
her "great"
you"no way"
her "yes way"
you "what was so great about it?"
and when she is done talking,(if you had a more exciting day you could say something like )
you"thats cool and all but you cant beat my day"
her "hmm well then lets hear it"
stupid little lingo like that can go on for hours just make sure you through some c&f in there and put some steak on it.
yeah
Yeah i do that,but Im pretty funny and convo like that is kinda boring, i want to have stimulating convo. Im really relaxed about myself and everything too. I guess what u guys are telling me to do is chill out but when I feel really good about myself I talk great
Yeah i do that,but Im pretty funny and convo like that is kinda boring, i want to have stimulating convo. Im really relaxed about myself and everything too. I guess what u guys are telling me to do is chill out but when I feel really good about myself I talk great
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i guess
Im placing too much empahsis on being suave funny witty etc. I want to be more funny suave and witty than i already am, thas how i feel inside. Like who I am is not enough or not good enough, when i should be saying it is. It just doesnt feel like it is good enough. I want that warm fuzzy feeling about myself I love it, it gives me alot of confidence
Im placing too much empahsis on being suave funny witty etc. I want to be more funny suave and witty than i already am, thas how i feel inside. Like who I am is not enough or not good enough, when i should be saying it is. It just doesnt feel like it is good enough. I want that warm fuzzy feeling about myself I love it, it gives me alot of confidence