"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one. I become very non-confident, and I start babbling like an idiot. before, i would be content with not saying anything and not embarrassing myself.
EDIT: Now im forcing myself to talk to them, but it's coming out all wrong. i began telling some girl about my embarassing gaming habits...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Read the bible bro. It has everything. Don't start right out with trying to have full fledged conversations with girls. Start little by little, staring with just smiles, then just hello's, and so on and so forth. Practice each until it becomes a second nature to you.
 
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Embarrassing gaming habits? Fwck that man. Someone asks you do you play video games, say fwck yeah I play video games.
 
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asianbboy said:
My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one.
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They are NOT above you. Take them off that pedestal dude. Chicks eat, sleep and crap, the same as we do(DJB Quote)!

You'll start getting success when you approach them as a PERSON and not as a GODDESS. Be in control always.

Another thing that may help is to imagine the HB taking a Dump or Farting :p Gets you rid of the stupid infatuation feelings straight away.

-AK
 
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What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eastcoast15 said:
What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
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East is right. It's the same with EVERYTHING in this world. experience/conditioning will solve it faster than anything else.
 
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