"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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asianbboy

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My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one. I become very non-confident, and I start babbling like an idiot. before, i would be content with not saying anything and not embarrassing myself.
EDIT: Now im forcing myself to talk to them, but it's coming out all wrong. i began telling some girl about my embarassing gaming habits...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dr.LASR

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Read the bible bro. It has everything. Don't start right out with trying to have full fledged conversations with girls. Start little by little, staring with just smiles, then just hello's, and so on and so forth. Practice each until it becomes a second nature to you.
 
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Embarrassing gaming habits? Fwck that man. Someone asks you do you play video games, say fwck yeah I play video games.
 
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asianbboy said:
My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one.
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They are NOT above you. Take them off that pedestal dude. Chicks eat, sleep and crap, the same as we do(DJB Quote)!

You'll start getting success when you approach them as a PERSON and not as a GODDESS. Be in control always.

Another thing that may help is to imagine the HB taking a Dump or Farting :p Gets you rid of the stupid infatuation feelings straight away.

-AK
 
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What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eastcoast15 said:
What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
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East is right. It's the same with EVERYTHING in this world. experience/conditioning will solve it faster than anything else.
 
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