"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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asianbboy

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My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one. I become very non-confident, and I start babbling like an idiot. before, i would be content with not saying anything and not embarrassing myself.
EDIT: Now im forcing myself to talk to them, but it's coming out all wrong. i began telling some girl about my embarassing gaming habits...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dr.LASR

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Read the bible bro. It has everything. Don't start right out with trying to have full fledged conversations with girls. Start little by little, staring with just smiles, then just hello's, and so on and so forth. Practice each until it becomes a second nature to you.
 

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Embarrassing gaming habits? Fwck that man. Someone asks you do you play video games, say fwck yeah I play video games.
 

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asianbboy said:
My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one.
They are NOT above you. Take them off that pedestal dude. Chicks eat, sleep and crap, the same as we do(DJB Quote)!

You'll start getting success when you approach them as a PERSON and not as a GODDESS. Be in control always.

Another thing that may help is to imagine the HB taking a Dump or Farting :p Gets you rid of the stupid infatuation feelings straight away.

-AK
 

eastcoast15

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What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlexLefty

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eastcoast15 said:
What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
East is right. It's the same with EVERYTHING in this world. experience/conditioning will solve it faster than anything else.
 
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