"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one. I become very non-confident, and I start babbling like an idiot. before, i would be content with not saying anything and not embarrassing myself.
EDIT: Now im forcing myself to talk to them, but it's coming out all wrong. i began telling some girl about my embarassing gaming habits...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Read the bible bro. It has everything. Don't start right out with trying to have full fledged conversations with girls. Start little by little, staring with just smiles, then just hello's, and so on and so forth. Practice each until it becomes a second nature to you.
 
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Embarrassing gaming habits? Fwck that man. Someone asks you do you play video games, say fwck yeah I play video games.
 
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asianbboy said:
My game is so terrible with hot girls. I can literally feel the blood rushing to my ears when I'm talking to one.
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They are NOT above you. Take them off that pedestal dude. Chicks eat, sleep and crap, the same as we do(DJB Quote)!

You'll start getting success when you approach them as a PERSON and not as a GODDESS. Be in control always.

Another thing that may help is to imagine the HB taking a Dump or Farting :p Gets you rid of the stupid infatuation feelings straight away.

-AK
 
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What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eastcoast15 said:
What the guys are saying is right. But it is hard to keep your cool around them when you first start talking to them regardless of how much you have read about it. You need to just keep talking to them more and more to get used to it and feel comfortable. One YOU have the actual experience of doing it then you'll slowly stop having reactions like that.

Experience will solve it. Hang in there man!
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East is right. It's the same with EVERYTHING in this world. experience/conditioning will solve it faster than anything else.
 
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