"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brighty

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Basically I'm going to try do the DJ Bootcamp and go to the mall and try to initate conversations with random girls and attempt to get their numbers. What are some basic guildines for that and some basic openers I could use? Also, I called my friend whos an AFC and tried to convince him to do it, but he just laughed it off and said he doesn't need the practice (he does). What are some things I could say to him to convince him to come along with me? I'd rather not go alone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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navyseal2101

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Tell him to come to watch you and se how your doing, then when ur doing it say how fun it is and get him to join in.
 

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A contest to see who's the better player. My friends and I are very competitive and we all have huge ego's. We play to see who can get the most numbers in a single night.
 

mpimpin

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Spade_1 said:
A contest to see who's the better player. My friends and I are very competitive and we all have huge ego's. We play to see who can get the most numbers in a single night.

Try switching it up one night and see who can get the most rejections. You'll have fun doing stupid stuff and realize its a lot harder then you think it is to get rejected
 

Spade_1

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Lol I actually think that's a pretty fun idea, but I don't know if my friends would be into that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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