"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Need help within the next hour

Brighty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 4, 2006
Messages
643
Reaction score
38
Basically I'm going to try do the DJ Bootcamp and go to the mall and try to initate conversations with random girls and attempt to get their numbers. What are some basic guildines for that and some basic openers I could use? Also, I called my friend whos an AFC and tried to convince him to do it, but he just laughed it off and said he doesn't need the practice (he does). What are some things I could say to him to convince him to come along with me? I'd rather not go alone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

navyseal2101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
Tell him to come to watch you and se how your doing, then when ur doing it say how fun it is and get him to join in.
 

Spade_1

Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2007
Messages
54
Reaction score
0
A contest to see who's the better player. My friends and I are very competitive and we all have huge ego's. We play to see who can get the most numbers in a single night.
 

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
Spade_1 said:
A contest to see who's the better player. My friends and I are very competitive and we all have huge ego's. We play to see who can get the most numbers in a single night.

Try switching it up one night and see who can get the most rejections. You'll have fun doing stupid stuff and realize its a lot harder then you think it is to get rejected
 

Spade_1

Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2007
Messages
54
Reaction score
0
Lol I actually think that's a pretty fun idea, but I don't know if my friends would be into that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top