"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Brighty

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Basically I'm going to try do the DJ Bootcamp and go to the mall and try to initate conversations with random girls and attempt to get their numbers. What are some basic guildines for that and some basic openers I could use? Also, I called my friend whos an AFC and tried to convince him to do it, but he just laughed it off and said he doesn't need the practice (he does). What are some things I could say to him to convince him to come along with me? I'd rather not go alone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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navyseal2101

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Tell him to come to watch you and se how your doing, then when ur doing it say how fun it is and get him to join in.
 

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A contest to see who's the better player. My friends and I are very competitive and we all have huge ego's. We play to see who can get the most numbers in a single night.
 

mpimpin

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Spade_1 said:
A contest to see who's the better player. My friends and I are very competitive and we all have huge ego's. We play to see who can get the most numbers in a single night.

Try switching it up one night and see who can get the most rejections. You'll have fun doing stupid stuff and realize its a lot harder then you think it is to get rejected
 

Spade_1

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Lol I actually think that's a pretty fun idea, but I don't know if my friends would be into that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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