"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iChris said:
My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
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The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
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So you think I still have a chance with this one?
 
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Say you sorry for sound like a "freakin homo" and spark a new good conversation!!!! YAAA!!!!
 
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You should be special:
Don't tell her you like her turn the sides:
You should reply to the question:
"Why are you asking these qustions" with:
"Why are YOU asking that?".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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