"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
 

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iChris said:
My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
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The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
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So you think I still have a chance with this one?
 
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Say you sorry for sound like a "freakin homo" and spark a new good conversation!!!! YAAA!!!!
 
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You should be special:
Don't tell her you like her turn the sides:
You should reply to the question:
"Why are you asking these qustions" with:
"Why are YOU asking that?".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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