"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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iChris said:
My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
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The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
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So you think I still have a chance with this one?
 
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Say you sorry for sound like a "freakin homo" and spark a new good conversation!!!! YAAA!!!!
 
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You should be special:
Don't tell her you like her turn the sides:
You should reply to the question:
"Why are you asking these qustions" with:
"Why are YOU asking that?".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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